I got back from San Francisco Sunday after about a 12 hours of flying and waiting in the airport-SOP these days. I’m happy to be home but I admit I had a good time!
During the conference I got to attend a number of panels that were informative and useful. The one the Kensington editors did on cover art was especially good. I had the privilege of being on the first RWA panel about GLBT topics. Cassie Stevens, Lyndi Lamont, ML Rhodes and NY published author Kate Douglas sat on the panel with me. I’ve been submitting this panel to romance conferences for a couple of years. This year RWA accepted it. I was thrilled to have the door to the genre opened a bit by their decision to let it run. That’s a big step for us.
The panel had the non-specific title of The Romance of Alternative Lifestyles. Possibly a better title could have been used but it lowered the resistance to the topic being accepted. Now we’ve opened the door and hopefully next year we’ll be able to do more. It was the first time the five of us had done a panel together and while we had discussed the topics and organized our individual topics, there wasn’t an opportunity to practice together. Hopefully the attendees forgave our missteps. It was impossible to cover all the territory we wanted to cover in the short time we had. Maybe we can make up for it next year.
To the conference inexperienced it may have looked like this one was poorly attended. But speaking from experience, it was a good turnout! One we all appreciated! I want to thank everyone who came and showed their support. You made it a success.
We were scheduled at the end of the day on Friday while one of the several awards ceremonies was being presented. A tough time slot for anyone. Even so, over 40 people showed. I got a count from the number of goodie bags and handouts left over– very few. The discussion covered briefly menage and f/f with a larger focus on the more popular M/M. The main thrust was to show where the genre is and were it can go, and what NY is doing with it. Or not. Yet. One hour is too short a period of time to address everything, but all in all for the first discussion at RWA of it’s kind, it went well.
I’m very encouraged by the response from the attendees after the panel and RWA for accepting the topic. Next year we’ll try it again.
After the panel I meet with blogger girl lisabea. She and I hit it off from the start. Feeling the need to unwind, we agreed to go to TeddyPig’s old haunt The Eagle club and have a drink in his honor! So we did. We spend a delightful evening chatting with a terrific and fun lady named Linda. She was a sweet and funny woman. The place was a hangout that can only be described and appreciated by one who has been there. I’m not kidding! I’m so glad we went.
After a few hours of drinks and chatting, lisabea and I decided to go back to the hotel. Maddie the sweet curly-haired bartender graciously called us a cab. While we were waiting for it, a long black, shiny unmarked car pulled up and tried to get us to get in, offering taxi service. Since we’re both past that ‘want some candy, little girl’ stage, we declined. Then suddenly the drive makes a huge u turn and almost runs us over on the curb, but in the process he hits the Harley parked in front of the bar. Of course, the driver tears out into traffic after crushing the bike, just missing creating another accident, while the guys come out of the bar.
At this point, we tell them what we know and 2 women who also saw the accident as they parked their car hang around to talk about it. Our real cab shows and we leave. Only, part of the way home we realize we aren’t headed the right direction and when the cab stops for a traffic disturbance, two tipsy 20-something young men standing in the road ask to share our cab. We agree. Hey, it’s been that kind of a night! They flirt, tease, chat, laugh and entertain us all the way to our real hotel, then like true gentlemen, drunk or not, they pick up the tab. And believe me, by on it’s a pretty hefty tab. Youth! And I thought my adventurous days were over. lol.
All said and done, I had a very interesting, educational and profitable time at RWA.
Written by Laura Baumbach
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lisabea wrote,
Hilarity ensued, Laura. I can’t say enough how glad I am that we ditched the goings on at the hotel and went out to make our own fun. Yay us. OMG the sound of the car going over that poor bike!
And the look on those sweet young faces when you said “We write gay erotica.” PRICELESS.
Link | August 6th, 2008 at 10:43 am
Laura Baumbach wrote,
LOL! It was a Kodak moment, lb. I feel so back for that bike and it’s owner. That car driver was creepy!
Link | August 6th, 2008 at 10:57 am
AllyBlue wrote,
LOLOL! Sounds like y’all had a pretty fantabulous night :D
I’m jealous! I want to hang out with y’all at the Eagle!
Link | August 6th, 2008 at 11:58 am
Wave wrote,
Hi Laura
It was great to get your perspective on the RWA conference, but what I still don’t understand is why M/M authors continue to pay RWA’s huge fees to be treated poorly by an organization that refuses to promote their books! The fact that your panel was called Alernative Lifestyles and was given a time slot of a Friday afternoon in the same time period as major awards were to be handed out speaks volumes for the RWA. Well, that’s my rant for the day. At least you and LB had fun at The Eagle club :)
Link | August 8th, 2008 at 3:36 am
Laura Baumbach wrote,
We attend conferences like RWA to network and keep abreast of the changes within our community,Jesse. We belong to the official organization of the romance community and pay the membership fees so that we can try and affect changes from within and have our voice heard. Ranting from the sidelines does nothing.
Working from within got us a voice this year. Opening doors takes time and persistence, and yes, sometimes membership fees.
One of the problems I faced with putting the panel together was not having a large group of M/M writers to ask to join the panel so our voice could be heard. Not enough are members of RWA to help out. And why should RWA pay attention to writers who aren’t a part of their organization? Our panel was well represented in the end. We need to invest in ourselves and our genre once in awhile, IMO.
Link | August 8th, 2008 at 6:12 am
Laura Baumbach wrote,
There title was my choice. I chose it knowing it wasn’t the best title but that it was one that would be accepted easier than not. Having the panel presented was more important than what the panel was called. The content was the focus not the four words it was titled.
One of next year’s panel title submissions from me is titled ‘Love by Any Other Name: Tips on writing and publishing non-traditional romances.’ Radclyff and Kate Douglas have agreed to join me on this one if it is accepted. Three of us write, two of us publish. Working from within is the key to effective change, IMO.
I’m happy to be a RWA member and the opportunities it provides me. It’s up to me to make the most of what is offered.
Link | August 8th, 2008 at 6:21 am
lisabea wrote,
You go, Laura.
OMG and I’ve been flying my paper airplanes cuz I’m a total moron.
I was surprised by how many big name authors gripped my hand and grinned and said they love their man love. Really. OH I’d name names…but… It was the women my own age, readers, that had me slack jawed. But of course, I spend much of my life amazed by the lack of sensitivity shown by others.
My self included.
One thing that stands out to me (other than that motorcycle…) was fabulous dude I met in line for the Berkley signing. He was at RWA as a fan of chick lit and a newbie writer. He had no clue that m/m romance existed and we talked for over an hour. There are many readers who just don’t know this genre exists. I mean, heck, I didn’t know this genre existed until recently. So RWA? 2500 potential buyers. In one place! Hungry for books!! Woot!
It’s also such a great place to meet readers. Every author there is a reader first. So beyond the pointing and gawking at the lovely ladies (Meljean!!!) and signing of books, the discussions on reading, character development, genre, history, marketing…it was fricken lovely.
Not to mention the beverages.
Link | August 8th, 2008 at 6:36 am
Wave wrote,
Hi Laura
I want to say right off the top that the M/M genre couldn’t have a better advocate than you. It just seems that change in the industry is as slow as molasses especially in New York. Obviously it’s better to advocate for change from within the industry and it is coming since this year there was a panel discussion. Perhaps in a few years the romance industry will evolve sufficiently that there will be recognition across the board for all types of romance regardless of genre, particularly in the area of critical acclaim for some of the authors who write M/M romances..
I really appreciated your perspective. Next year’s panel should be a whole lot easier to sell now that the first one has been so successful. Kudos to you.
Wave
Link | August 9th, 2008 at 7:03 pm
Laura Baumbach wrote,
Thanks, Wave, I truly appreciate the very kind words and the support. It takes time, energy and money to persist but it’s worth it!
Link | August 9th, 2008 at 9:41 pm