I’ve been thinking a lot lately about chemistry. Not the laboratory and test-tube kind but the romantic kind. Specifically I’ve been wondering why some romances have it while others just don’t.

I read a lot of romances and though contemporaries are by far my favorite both to read and write, I read everything, all subgenres, gay and straight, and I have my favorite comfort reads in all those subgenres.

Lately, however, I seem to have entered a reading slump. Not in the number of books I’ve been buying and reading, but in the number of books that have really hit the mark for me as a reader. The books in which I found chemistry.

I rarely buy a book based on a review. Most of my purchases are made either because a friend whose opinion I trust recommends a book or author to me, or because the blurb sounds good. With the last handful of titles, the ones I’ve found so lacking, it’s been the blurb that drew me in.

A couple of the books were romantic suspense, all were contemporaries. The couples were all m/m and the plots varied from complex, skipping back and forth in time and place, to rather straightforward and simplistic, boy meets boy and sex ensues then leads to love. All good, right?

Wrong. Despite the exciting settings, interesting plot twists and hot guys, none of these stories did it for me on an emotional level. It didn’t matter whether the sex happened quickly or took several chapters of build-up to get to. Whether the end was the true HEA or a HFN. It didn’t matter how many times the authors tried to tell me how compelling the men found each other. I couldn’t feel it. And if I can’t feel the attraction in my heart, if I don’t get that little tickle low in my belly when the couple comes together, the story is a bust imo.

Now I would never publicly diss another author’s work, so I won’t mention the titles of the books that so disappointed me. But neither will I probably buy any other work from these writers.

It’s the emotion that does it for me. I want to feel what the pov character feels when he looks in his lover’s eyes. Don’t just tell me about it. Make my heart race along with his. Make my pulse jump along with his. Let me feel the butterflies low in my belly. That’s why I read romance.

How about you? What do you look for in a romance? What is it that really lights your fire? And if you have any books or authors to recommend I’d love to hear them.

Written by Kimberly Gardner


As early as the seventh grade, Kimberly remembers slashing her favorite rockstars and reading romance. So it’s not surprising that her two passions, romance and putting pretty boys with other pretty boys, should come together in her writing. Moliere said, “Writing is like prostitution. First you do it for love, then for a few close friends, then for money.” Kimberly is delighted to finally be doing it for money.
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"Where’s the Spark" was published on February 4th, 2008 and is listed in Kimberly Gardner.

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Comments on "Where’s the Spark": 6 Comments

  1. Maura Anderson wrote,

    I’m also hugely drawn to the character’s emotions and if I, as a reader, cannot feel those emotions, I don’t tend to like the book much.

    I tell people I have to have some sweet with my spice. That happiness matters to me and I want the readers to feel it too.

    No off the top of my head recommendations, but I’ll come up with some for you :)

  2. Kimber wrote,

    Very well said, Maura. I need that sweetness to go along with the heat.

  3. Lidyah wrote,

    Excellent post and I am there with you. I’m in a reading slump too, and I feel a lot of stories are missing that certain charm. I had to re-read a few of my favourite e-books because I was that annoyed.

    Recommendations:

    01. Sharon Maria Bidwell - Snow Angel and Angel Heart (Loose Id)
    02. Murder in Pastel - Colin Dunne (Torquere Books)
    03. Keep Me - Cindy Rosenthal (intense book) - Torquere Books
    04. Amor en Retrogrado - A.M. Riley (Loose Id)
    05. Master of the Lines (series books 1-4) - Angela Fiddler (Loose Id)
    06. Books by Michael Thomas Ford (fantastic author)
    07. Metes and Bounds by Jay Quinn (any online store)
    08. Bad Case of Loving You - Laney Cairo (Torquere Books)
    09. Undercover Blues - Laney Cairo (Torquere Books)
    10. Any books by Tory Temple
    11. The psycop series by Jordan Castillo Price (Torquere books)

    If you need anymore let me know :)

  4. Kimber wrote,

    Hi Lidyah, Those sound like great recommendations. I’ve read a few of them (Riley, Rosenthal and Bad Case by Laney Cairo) but I’ll definitely seek out the rest. I can tell from the titles I’m familiar with that you like a little angst on the way to the HEA. So do I. Thanks for the recs and for dropping by the blog.

  5. Lidyah wrote,

    How did you like Cindy’s book? I’ve not met many who have read it. I has such a hard time going through that book, beautifully written - but damn is it a lot to take it.

    I love my angst, the HEA has to be worth it you know? It’s just too easy otherwise. Have you read the “Front Runner” by Patricia Nell Warren? What a book. Halfway through it. Harlan’s Race and Billy’s Boy are the other books in that series. I’m currently reading the English translation of Eric Jourdan’s “Les Mauvais Anges”. Just amazing!

    You know most my recommendations venture out the e-book world. The books that really hit me, are usually via paperback.

    I know my recommendations are all m/m - but if you’re looking for something general - Ben Mezrich is a fantastic author. Also Tom Dolby, he’s a very good writer. Young and very talented,. He just released his 2nd book (The Sixth Form). I haven’t read it yet, but I read his first novel “Trouble Boy” nicely penned for a first time author.

    Sorry, I can go on and on. LOL. Any recommendations from your side -grins-

  6. Kimber wrote,

    Lidyah, I liked the Rosenthal book a lot, but you’re right, it was very intense. I picked up Laney Cairo’s Undercover Blues but haven’t started it yet. The rest of your recs are on my to-be-bought list for sure.

    I read quite a lot of m/m but I do also venture outside the genre quite often. I also read a lot of non-romance. In the non-rom category I can recommend anything by Jodi Picoult but especially Nineteen Minutes, My Sister’s Keeper, and The Pact.

    Alan Hollinghurst is also very good for non-rom. The Swimming Pool Library is a terrific read.

    Another very intense book is Tulsa Brown’s Achiles Other Heel. Not sure if it’s still available from Torquere, but it’s worth tracking down. Be warned though that the ending is more ambiguous than HEA.

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